How do you feel about making a fashion statement?
Because I for one have a boatload of mixed feelings.
Back in my high school heydays I did not shy away from taking risks when it came to what I wore. Bright pink heels? Check. Sweater skirt? Yes. Vertical stripe flares? You betcha.
Sure, not everything worked. But a lot of times it did – presumably because I was expressing myself through what I wore, while not yet burdened by caring what the rest of the world thought.
I don’t know when, I don’t know how, but I know something’s starting right now but slowly over the years that innocence and fearlessness slipped away. I now feel much less comfortable making a fashion statement. A lot of times I feel self-conscious and uncomfortable. Which to me, feels a bit sad because I actually love to express myself through what I wear.
So what changed? What happened to that fearless 14 year old? Honestly, I don’t know. I think I suffer from the can’t-choose-anything-because-I-want-everything syndrome, which makes it hard for me to nail down my own personal fashion style. So everything feels a little experimental, like I’m stepping outside my comfort zone. (Ok fine, it’s obvious I like blue and white stripes, but there’s got to be more to it than that!)
The thing is, I still take fashion risks. I can’t not express myself through what I wear. I’d like to get back to that point where I don’t even notice what others think, but I’m not sure if that’s possible. My level of confidence is a work in progress.
These over-the-knee boots are an excellent starting point. I paired them with a simple silk shirt dress, to keep things from feeling too over-the-knee-top. And black, because obvi. This look feels a little less risky and more accessible to me, while still feeling pulled-together and somewhat fashion-forward.
How do you guys handle fashion statements? Are you for them? Against them? Do you feel comfortable trying out new looks? I’d love to hear your thoughts!
Dress (old, but similar here) / Bag (old, but similar here / Over-The-Knee Boots
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